Circum-decision
Hi Lady
I need to ask you about something. I have a boyfriend and he is uncircumcised. I found it intriguing at first and was happy about it. It was all new since I am Jewish and had only dated Jewish men. Now I have mixed feelings. Size isn't an issue, (I'd rather have great chemistry and a good fit), but I find the looseness inside me isn't all that stimulating. Plus I don't know if I like to go down on him. I used to love that with my ex, (he was Jewish), and now my boyfriend is starting to complain. I am having fantasies about my ex, but I think I broke his heart. I just didn't realize how good it was with him. I really loved his thing, especially because he was a great fit and his thing was solid without all that extra skin. I talked to my current about getting it done, and he was insulted. Is there anything you would do that would help me work this out? Thanks.
Jill
Hi Jill. Well, I can see what you mean. I much rather enjoy the "cut" version, though my current is not Jewish, but cut. I might add that my little situation was similar to yours, maybe a little farther on down the line, if you want to take it where I took it.
I dated a guy that was uncut for awhile, and I had the same thoughts. I had decided to "date" him for all the wrong reasons (I'm not immune, you know) and then I found his "uncut" appealing, too. (at first.) after a few months, I found that I was growing bored with this "hunk" who was handsome and well endowed, which was compounded by his lack of emotional stimulation, maturity and his looseness "down there". I dreaded going down on him. I finally broke it off . I then tried to hook up with one of my exes from a while back (not at all a "handsome hunk") who had the most beautiful "average" cut version. I had hurt him so he would not even take my calls. The hunk kept persuing me in a "macho" show off way, so I just told him I didn't like it "uncut". He was a baby about it, so it made me run far. I still was after my ex and his hot smooth and clean "cut" version. I even tried another guy and wanted to throw myself out the window after it. He, too, had a nice "cut" one, but I needed the extra factor of having someone that actually LOVED me. I finally got my ex cornered at an industry party. He wanted nothing to do with me, I could tell. Well, I just took the plunge and told him I wanted his "cut" in my mouth right there. He got a little agitated at me, but I just dragged him off and sucked the life out of the poor bastard. Then I took him home and rocked him all night, and in the morning too, and all the next afternoon. The silly "average" guy LOVED me, and I decided it was high time to stop my crap and show him what's what.
It's true you don't know what you got until you lose it, but there is a thing we women can do about it. Love is rare, penis is easy. Think about it, I bet I know what you'll do. :) :)
p.s., I'm still with the average poor bastard and just showed him this letter, well, so much for the rest of the afternoon.:) :) :) :) :) -LL
I need to ask you about something. I have a boyfriend and he is uncircumcised. I found it intriguing at first and was happy about it. It was all new since I am Jewish and had only dated Jewish men. Now I have mixed feelings. Size isn't an issue, (I'd rather have great chemistry and a good fit), but I find the looseness inside me isn't all that stimulating. Plus I don't know if I like to go down on him. I used to love that with my ex, (he was Jewish), and now my boyfriend is starting to complain. I am having fantasies about my ex, but I think I broke his heart. I just didn't realize how good it was with him. I really loved his thing, especially because he was a great fit and his thing was solid without all that extra skin. I talked to my current about getting it done, and he was insulted. Is there anything you would do that would help me work this out? Thanks.
Jill
Hi Jill. Well, I can see what you mean. I much rather enjoy the "cut" version, though my current is not Jewish, but cut. I might add that my little situation was similar to yours, maybe a little farther on down the line, if you want to take it where I took it.
I dated a guy that was uncut for awhile, and I had the same thoughts. I had decided to "date" him for all the wrong reasons (I'm not immune, you know) and then I found his "uncut" appealing, too. (at first.) after a few months, I found that I was growing bored with this "hunk" who was handsome and well endowed, which was compounded by his lack of emotional stimulation, maturity and his looseness "down there". I dreaded going down on him. I finally broke it off . I then tried to hook up with one of my exes from a while back (not at all a "handsome hunk") who had the most beautiful "average" cut version. I had hurt him so he would not even take my calls. The hunk kept persuing me in a "macho" show off way, so I just told him I didn't like it "uncut". He was a baby about it, so it made me run far. I still was after my ex and his hot smooth and clean "cut" version. I even tried another guy and wanted to throw myself out the window after it. He, too, had a nice "cut" one, but I needed the extra factor of having someone that actually LOVED me. I finally got my ex cornered at an industry party. He wanted nothing to do with me, I could tell. Well, I just took the plunge and told him I wanted his "cut" in my mouth right there. He got a little agitated at me, but I just dragged him off and sucked the life out of the poor bastard. Then I took him home and rocked him all night, and in the morning too, and all the next afternoon. The silly "average" guy LOVED me, and I decided it was high time to stop my crap and show him what's what.
It's true you don't know what you got until you lose it, but there is a thing we women can do about it. Love is rare, penis is easy. Think about it, I bet I know what you'll do. :) :)
p.s., I'm still with the average poor bastard and just showed him this letter, well, so much for the rest of the afternoon.:) :) :) :) :) -LL
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